You should NOT do a boudoir session if…

If you are doing your boudoir session SOULY for someone else.

If the idea of getting a boudoir session done makes you uneasy but you are trying to make your partner happy, it might not be the right move for you. I don’t EVER want you to feel uncomfortable and of course doing this as a gift is awesome, but if you genuinely don’t like the idea, don’t do it.

If you TRULY don’t even want to try to love yourself.

For real, the idea of loving ourselves is great. Some of us honestly do have the desire to love ourselves a little more than others. If you’re one of those people who loves to sit in your misery and negativity, skip the session. Sessions are all about loving YOU for you. I’m going to put you in poses that show YOU off. If you aren’t open to letting me show you how truly gorgeous and amazing you are it’s not going to have the result I’m aiming for.

You hate fun.

I mean honestly, it’s a simple enough explanation. Boudoir sessions are fun, if you’re not into having a good time, skip it.

If you can’t trust the process.

These sessions are weird sometimes, fun, but weird. You’re going to be put into positions that are uncomfortable and you’re going to be asked to do movements that seem silly. ALL I ask is that you trust the process. Trust me to capture your beauty, trust me to show you that you are a fucking goddess.

If you don’t like me.

Joking, except not really. haha If you’re not vibing with me, there’s no way you’re going to get everything you should be getting out of the experience. I won’t be offended, I promise. Go with who you vibe with.